I've released Lightwhale 3, which is possibly the easiest way to self-host Docker containers.
It's a free, immutable Linux system purpose-built to live-boot straight into a working Docker Engine, thereby shortcutting the need for installation, configuration, and maintenance. Its simple design makes it easy to learn, and its low memory footprint should make it especially attractive during these times of RAMageddon.
If this has piqued your interest, do check it out, along with its easy-to-follow Getting Started guide.
In any event, have a nice day! =)
Kudos to the great project!
But functionally, like you I find Ubuntu server fine. I run apt update and upgrade a couple times a year and its local only with tailscale access.
I find these immutable OS's really nice on laptop or desktop. The home directory is the only thing that can be written to so the OS is supposed to be more stable and can't break easily
I've long since thrown everything with a user count > 1 out.