About Rx Kids
30 points by mooreds 5 days ago | 26 comments

usernametaken29 2 hours ago
Germany recently discussed raising health insurance premiums for families (because families cause higher costs). Instead of the stick we need to use the carrot. Everybody is asking why birth rates plummet. It’s simple. Having a family costs a fuckton of money. I personally know a bunch of well-off people who have decided against children since they don’t think they’ll be able to sustain any way of middle class existence with kids. Having a program that supports mothers like this, cash, no strings attached, is awesome. The last thing people need is to jump 1000x bureaucratic hoops when they’re broke and have basically zero sleep. Hats off, cool charity!
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fredrikholm 2 hours ago
> Everybody is asking why birth rates plummet. It’s simple. Having a family costs a fuckton of money.

It's a factor, it's not the only factor.

Decrease in teenage pregnancies, decrease in alcohol consumption, contraception and day after pills, higher levels of education, less socialized culture, less generational housing etc.

Having a child is more than often a deliberate, calculated decision that is made by adults whereas in the old world pregnancies happened left and right with little to say about it. Support systems existed because the problem was pervasive. Now the problem is generally gone, and the support systems thereafter.

No country has managed to reverse the trend of declining birth rates. The better quality of life people have, the fewer children people tend to have.

It's not just about who does and who doesn't have children, it's also how many children per family. 1-2 children is the new normal. My grandpa was #7.

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eru 2 hours ago
> No country has managed to reverse the trend of declining birth rates.

Perhaps we can learn from the past? Birthrates between the world wars were below replacement level in much of the western world. Then the trend reversed for a while.

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rcxdude 56 minutes ago
Question is why was this the case? I feel a natural explanation is it's a reaction to there being less people around on account of the huge number of deaths, in which case there's probably little reason to worry: if birth rate increases as population drops then the system should tend to equalise itself. If it's something else related to a gigantic war specifically then it's a bit less certain (one very important question is was the growth just a displacement in time from all the couples who could not have a child during the war but now can?).
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woodpanel 35 minutes ago
> No country has managed to reverse the trend of declining birth rate

May I point you to the State of Israel? Its TFR sits at 3.

And if we really want to be nitpicky, and concentrating on the "reverse"-part of your statement, then even Balkan countries shine, as they literally managed to reverse the trend.

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Game_Ender 9 minutes ago
Israel is still declining just more slowly [0]. They do show the general point of this thread: it’s not money that is causing people to have fewer kids. It is the changing social structure and norms, in Israel they appear to tolerate kids everywhere, everyone has lots of kids adding social pressure, family and social support structures are strong making it easier.

In South Korea the reports are they this is very different. Kids are not tolerated in many places, many couples have few kids, society makes it quite hard on moms as well.

0 - https://www.macrotrends.net/global-metrics/countries/isr/isr...

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fredrikholm 15 minutes ago
> And if we really want to be nitpicky, and concentrating on the "reverse"-part of your statement, then even Balkan countries shine, as they literally managed to reverse the trend.

That same bump is now reversing and the general trend of depopulation continues to accelerate. IIRC Bosnia has the lowest birth rates in all of Europe.

I appreciate the push back; I was overly confident in that statement. I do think however that it's correct to state that the slow trend across all developed countries could be summarized as "aggressively downwards".

Israel is literally the one exception.

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po1nt 2 hours ago
IMHO we should just accept the lower income. Since women entered workforce we got used to the inflated lifestyle. We should just accept that having a kid will cost you money and it's fine. It's the best purchase there is.

Some might decide to buy more expensive car or larger house and that's cool choice as well. But in the end will bring you just a temporary happiness and maybe some social status boost.

Screw consumerism, just have a child.

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collabs 40 minutes ago
On the contrary, strike! Refuse to have children completely until society and in particular the wealthy uphold their end of the bargain and make universal free of cost childcare a reality.

Love your own life, refuse to have children for free!

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po1nt 26 minutes ago
Wealthy don't have children as well. Poorer families in africa have ten or more. It's not money issue. It's comfort issue
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rcxdude 55 minutes ago
This might be a useful attitude to have individually but it's not really a plan of how to solve the systemic issue.
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po1nt 17 minutes ago
There is no systemic issue to solve. There is only cultural issue.
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madduci 2 hours ago
I disagree. Why should we accept lower income, while billionaires are doing whatever they want, in the most illegal ways?

Unions and Fight for your rights, that's what we need

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po1nt 20 minutes ago
Don't pay them money, instead have children. The reason why they have money is you decide to buy their product instead of spending it on kids. (of course nestle and similar excluding)
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fssys 56 minutes ago
you need the larger house to have the kid!
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po1nt 18 minutes ago
Well no, that's a social standard. Plenty of people even in the US have double digit children in a trailer or two.
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drayfield 2 hours ago
What a fantastic charity, I really love the idea.
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dominicq 2 hours ago
Rx? Is it like Rx by Paul Le Roux, famous drug kingpin?
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GaryBluto 2 hours ago
Such a strained metaphor designed to obscure the fact it's just taxpayer-funded welfare for expectant and new mothers without any background checks, drug testing, income limits or work requirements.
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superb_dev 22 minutes ago
You tried so hard to make that sound bad but you just can’t. No strings attached money for expecting mothers? Excellent! Sounds fantastic!
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GaryBluto 14 minutes ago
I think giving taxpayer money to anybody without basic checks is a bad idea and it will undoubtedly be exploited by people who don't need it or choose to spend it on the wrong things while neglecting their child's needs; I don't disagree with the idea of giving money to new families who actually need it.

If this received no taxpayer funding I wouldn't care, but when public funding is involved there need to be some checks to ensure no abuse, which Rx Kids doesn't have.

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superb_dev 7 minutes ago
Well there are basic checks? For one, you need to be having a baby.

All of the checks you listed would just serve to make it harder for this money to reach the mothers that need it.

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GaryBluto 5 minutes ago
> All of the checks you listed would just serve to make it harder for this money to reach the mothers that need it.

In the same way seatbelts just serve to make it harder for drivers to get to where they need to go quickly. It would not be difficult to restrict this to people below a certain tax bracket.

It all comes down to how much public money (that could have been used to help people who need it) you're willing to accept the possibility of being defrauded for one person to get support a couple days sooner.

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Hugsbox 5 minutes ago
I'd rather see a few people abuse this rather than having more barriers up for the people who need this assistance.
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Hugsbox 8 minutes ago
Oh no, people who need assistance might get assistance, even if we haven't tried to look for a reason not to help them first?! What a disaster!
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GaryBluto 6 minutes ago
> Please respond to the strongest plausible interpretation of what someone says, not a weaker one that's easier to criticize. Assume good faith.

https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html

I've already discussed this in a separate reply.

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